Okay okay okay. I made you guys wait long enough to tell you about Michael.
Almost 2 years ago I met Mike. We met on Facebook dating app. I downloaded the app because I was bored and I really just wanted someone to waste my time. He was looking for a “friends with benefits” type thing so we started talking. The first message I sent to him had a typo and instead of sending 😂 I sent 🤬. He thought it was a simple mistake, which it was, but little did he know that was literally me. That emoji explains me in so many ways 😂😂. So we talk.. for 2 weeks. Just getting to know each other. We hit it off right at the beginning and it changed our thoughts of why could come from this.
Now Mike had just got out of the military so he was living with his sister at the time. He didn’t have a job as he was trying to spend as much time with his son and family as he could since he was gone for so long. I had not long ago gotten out of a horrible relationship and moved back home with nothing so I was living with my friend , Lisa. We didn’t have a place to go to to hang out so we met at the park. We hung out at this park for hours. Just talked and cuddled and had a great time. There were houses close to the park and one guy was blaring music. We listened to the music and we ended up slow dancing to Kinfolk. It was so freaking sweet. We enjoyed the rest of our night and then we went out separate ways.
Mike ended up getting a job at Sonic with me. We took this time to really get to know each other and ended up falling in love with each other. He’s so damn perfect man. We got into an argument once over a miscommunication through text. Texting is the devil. He handled the argument so well. He stopped out of work and called me to make sure we were okay. We talked it out and everything was fine. The way he handled this let me know that I wanted to spend a lot of time with him. I have never had someone go out of their way to clear the air over an argument.
Month 3 we decided to move in together. Ballsy I know. But we were happy. So happy. We moved in together and things just kept getting better. We have the tiniest house ever but we are happy together and that’s what matters.
Now, 2 years later we are still very happy. We are engaged. He treats my kids just like he’d treat his own. He loves them so much, man. Elizabeth had grown to act just like him and I’m not 100% sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing cause he has a really smart mouth.
A while ago, he approached me and told me if the twins were okay with it he would like to adopt them. This made my heart melt. They have been without a real father figure for 6-7 years now and the idea of them finally having a dad is tear jerking. They deserve someone who will love them unconditionally. They deserve someone who will teach them about life. They deserve someone to walk them down the isle and to know they have that now makes me so fucking happy. Bubby loves this man too. Mike is a big video game nerd and bubby loves video games so they get to bond over that and it’s so sweet. They will sit in the room for hours and just talk about video games and play together.
The way he treats me is amazing. He tells me I’m beautiful every single day. He makes sure I know how much he loves me. We don’t really argue and if we do it’s typically over something extremely stupid but when we TALK about it we work things out. It always ends with an I love you. I stress on the talk because I have never been in a relationship where we can talk. if I’ve had a bad day he will lay next to me and rub my back or my head and it’s just so great. We have a mini fridge by the bed that has water in it and every single day he restocks the water in the door so if I get thirsty in middle of the night I don’t have to get out of bed, I can just reach it. He grinds all my Mary Jane for me so I don’t have to mess with it. He will make sure I have a bowl packed after work. He washes all the laundry since he’s off on weekends and he cleans the house. He has even been known to cook me dinner and have it ready when I get home from work. He literally is the most perfect man ever.
Of course we’ve had our issues. I’ve talked about it before, but we did break up for a bit. It was very tough but we both realized we don’t want to continue life without each other and honestly since the break up things have been better than ever.
I am hoping to spend the rest of my life with this man. I love him so much and he treats me so well. He never yells. He never hits. He never calls me out of my name. He never does anything the other guys have done. Is it possible I found a guy that’s not the same as the rest?! I think it is.
Michael I love you babe and can’t wait to carry your last name. Cheers to many more years. ♥️